Dear Unstoppable woman,
The responsibility of working hard, planning and living a successful and fulfilled life falls largely on you. This simply means that you must understand that the burden of shaping your adult life is on your shoulders. It is all up to you.
The sooner you realize this, the better.
The most important question to ask yourself is; “what can I do today, this week, this month, this year, to get my life going in the direction I desire?”
If you truly believe that there is more to you than meets the eye, stop making excuses, and start living your best life immediately. If you are either on the verge of giving up, or are sick and tired of being mediocre, make a decision to start winning, by casting a YES vote in your favor today.
You don’t have to continue being stuck in that rut or being hounded by feelings of under achievement. Believe in yourself…you can make something of your life. Just don’t give up!
5 important life management questions to answer:
What do you want to do with your life? This is probably one of the most important questions that you will ever answer. The answer to this question will lay the foundation for your destiny.Once you have clearly identified what you want to do with your life, it then becomes the focal point of everything you plan to do. Knowing what you want to do gives you clarity and a much needed sense of purpose. It also prevents you from engaging in side tracking, time wasting ventures which have no connection to your purpose.
Understanding the importance of why you want to achieve certain things in your life, is the motivation that will drive you to accomplish the goals that you have set for yourself.Why do you want to achieve these goals you have set for yourself? Why do you want to lose weight? Why do you want to get married? Why do you want to start your own business? Why do you want to boost your self esteem? The answers to these questions must be compelling enough to move you into action.
In order for you to achieve certain things, you need to take on certain qualities. Who do you need to become as you strive to achieve your goal? Do you need to become more confident, committed and action oriented? Do you need to become a risk taker? Do you need to be more assertive? Identify the qualities that you need to adopt in order for you to achieve your goals. Max Dupree rightly said that “We cannot become what we need to be, by remaining what we are.”
How are you going to manage your life as a project? How are you planning on achieving your objectives? Do you have a step by step plan? Certain tools need to be in place to help you tie together all the pieces of the project you plan to accomplish.Having a plan is very important because it is the road map to your goal. It will help you know what information you require to make each phase of your life a success. For example..if you want to lose weight, how do you plan to lose it? If plan A fails what is plan B?
Every goal you set must have a deadline and any plan you have, must cease from just being a plan, turn into action and produce tangible results. When are you going to be done with at least one specific goal you have set out to accomplish? When are you going to wrap up the project? Your life is a do–it-yourself project. If you want your plans to materialize, start taking action today!
Caroline Jalango is a life strategist and motivational coach for women who want to do better for themselves. She is the author of "Settle for Less No More” and "You Deserve to Feel Good" motivational books for women who want to succeed. For more topics like this, visit http://www.motivationzone.com to gain the momentum to do better for yourself and get the results you want! Go to http://www.womensfutures.com to download and receive a free ebook to help you do better for yourself.